Update on Daughter of Purpose January 31, 2014

DOP is doing well in rehab. Every day there is a marked difference in her motor skills and abilities. She is talking more, although not as much as pre-surgery. She’s getting more sarcastic with the nurses and therapists….DOP at her finest!

She is eating very well and asks for all kinds of stuff we wouldn’t normally allow her to eat….somehow I’ve become a pushover when she asks for candy at 11pm. Several Gatorade bottles are drunk each day.

Last night when she went to bed, she was facing the left side of the bed. When I checked on her about an hour later, she was lying on her back. When I woke up this morning, she was facing the right side of the bed. She can turn in the bed all by herself! That’s a big jump from just a few days ago when she would yell in agony when we adjusted her neck.

Her daily schedule has increased and is quite rigorous. There are now three sessions each day for a half hour each for both OT and PT. This comes to a total of three hours of hard work throughout the day. Both therapists communicate well with each other and with Brandy and I so everyone knows what everyone is doing.

Target practice on dad is apparently a fun therapy.

DOP practiced her aim and arm strength by shooting balls her brother.

DOP can also now sit up in bed on her own and helps dress herself. She brushes her teeth in the morning and can use forks and spoons to feed herself fairly well.

Relaxing in bed.

Like I said….there is much improvement!

Anxiety From Walking

There is one thing that is kind of new and rather unexpected. She suddenly has this massive fear of walking and falling. Both therapists are working with her on standing up and walking with a walker and this is a major component of her rehabilitation. She is able to do it fairly well given the circumstances. However, for some reason, she is totally freaked out about it. When we ask her to stand up, her anxiety shoots through the roof. She begins to cry and yells out, “I don’t want to do this! I don’t want to do this!”

Honestly, I have not seen her have anxiety like this since her Gotcha Day when we took her from the orphanage five and a half years ago. When it started this morning, I was rather surprised. We talked with her to make sure she was not in any pain. She is not. She is simply scared of falling.

Now here’s the thing….anybody that knows DOP, knows this is really odd.

DOP falls all the time! She always has! And she never cries about it or is scared to fall again.

Until now…for some reason. She’s been through a lot. We certainly get that. But everything else has been fine with regards to her rehabilitation. This just kind of came from nowhere. And she hasn’t even fallen once yet!

We discussed it with the Rehab doctor and later in the day someone from Psych came to meet with us. Basically, we agreed we would wait another day or two to see if this subsided on its own before any sort of medication is discussed.

Please pray for this. Everyone has been very supportive and encouraging when it happens. We pray with her daily and in the midst of her anxiety, Brandy and I have each stopped the therapist to pray with her. Aside from this one hiccup, she is doing great! Please pray her fear of falling subsides and her anxiety disappears.

Child Life

The Child Life department at the hospital is amazing! Every day we get to do something new and exciting. From them delivering movies each day, to playing games and borrowing books, to having a volunteer play the violin for us, this department knows how to help kids have a good time and forget they’re in a hospital. Yesterday, Blue the dog, came to visit. Two days ago, we had someone come and do music therapy with both girls in the room at the same time. The girls played drums while the therapist played a guitar and sang worship songs. We all loved it.

Blue, the Sheep Dog, sitting on the bed with DOP and CTB.

A couple of days ago, we took the girls to one of the play rooms and met several other kids and volunteers. While we played cards, one of the volunteers played his violin. It was fun!

Playing cards in Child Life with violinist in the background.

A Big Room

Our roommate, Cloe the Brave, was able to go home today. Yeah for her and her family! While we celebrate that her friend gets to go home after nearly three weeks of being in the hospital, we are sad to have her leave us. Like us, her family has been through a difficult time and it was nice to be able to share our story together. But now, Cloe and her parents can sleep in their own beds, in their own comfortable home. Thanks for all the UNO games and good laughs!

Playing more cards with our roommate.

For the moment….we have this massive room to ourselves.

One Week To Go

After meeting with the Rehab doctor yesterday, she suggested we had about a week left here in the hospital. The goal is to get DOP to a place that everybody feels comfortable with her leaving by next weekend. This would put her (and me) being here for a total of one month. Ugh. It feels like way more than that. Based on her performance, this may change by a day or two either direction. Certainly, the anxiety issue needs to be resolved first.

Pray we’re outa here soon!

Thanks for praying and for keeping DOP in your thoughts.

Nathan and Brandy

Update on Daughter of Purpose, January 29th

Sorry, I have not updated much. Brandy has kept most people up to date with the basics via Facebook. Here’s where we are at with our little Daughter of Purpose.

We’ve moved to the Rehabilitation Wing of the hospital on Saturday night. We always move in the middle of the night….because it’s fun….and never wakes the kids up….and is awesome….and easy since you’ve already started sleeping….

Sunday we had a fairly easy day because they don’t do any therapy on Sunday. Monday started DOP’s three hours per day Physical and Occupational Therapies. The teams that are working with her are great. She doesn’t like it at all, but she is very easy going and does what they ask for even when it hurts. It’s just in her nature to not say no. Already we see improvements to her motor skills and movements.

She can sit up in the bed (after some help of getting there) for a minute or two and can even lift her arms above her head and bring them down in a somewhat controlled fashion. The PT guys got her to stand up out of bed just to evaluate where she was at. She screamed most of the time, but she did it! There is a long way to go and our best estimate is that she’ll be here for a week, possibly two.

Standing…in a bit of pain.

Please pray for her strength and coordination and a good spirit of motivation to get out of here.

After not pooping for more than two weeks, the doctors prescribed a few different medicines to help this problem…which eventually worked…and then worked too well! So those meds have now stopped. In fact, except for one stool softener, she is OFF ALL MEDICINES whatsoever! In fact, after going to the bathroom this morning, the nurse never put her heart and oxygen monitors back on. Woot! Woot!

Also today, the surgeon pulled off all the remaining steri-strips off DOP’s neck so she could look at the original incision and stitches. It looks great! I had to count the stitches for fun….20!

20 Stitches!

MRIs and CSF

DOP had another scheduled MRI this morning to check the pressure in her ventricles again. I’ve had several people ask me about why she keeps getting MRI’s and what they’re looking for….so here’s the best explanation I can give.

There are four ventricles in the brain and they are essentially hollow areas that produce and store cerebrospinal fluid (CSF). This is the fluid that your brain and spinal cord sit in and creates somewhat of a “cushion” (among doing other things I don’t understand). The tumor was located mostly in the fourth ventricle which also allows the CSF to flow down into the spinal column. So when they removed the tumor, the hope was that part of the brain tissue would just “go back to normal” and fill in where it is supposed to be. The remaining “cavity” would be filled with CSF which is what is supposed to be there anyway.

Still with me? Good.

When the ventricles become too full of fluid, this increases pressure in the brain….that’s bad. So the reason DOP keeps going in for MRI’s is to check the pressure that is building within the ventricles. We have a picture set of what they looked like prior to surgery, but since that contained a 3″ mass of a tumor, that’s not good for a baseline. So the day after surgery, they did a full MRI to use as a baseline. During that scan, DOP still had the EVD line (Exterior Ventricular Drain) exiting her head so this allowed the surgeons to more-or-less control the amount of pressure in her head. So they used this scan as a baseline when the ventricles were at the smaller size post-surgery.

Scan of ventricles a few days after surgery.

Since they removed the EVD line, the only way to know about the pressure in her head is to watch for visible signs and use an MRI. Visible signs are nausea, headaches, eye issues like double-vision, blurred vision or blindness, and a few other things. Except for DOP having double vision, she has experienced none of this. But the doctors are not sure if her double vision is from too much pressure or simply side effects from having their hands and a bunch of sharp objects poking around inside her brain. So we look to the MRI.

If she continues to show too much pressure, then the solutions the doctors would take is to install a shunt. It would be a small tube located under the skin that would run from her head, down her neck and into her lung cavity or some other location that can absorb the extra fluid. It would be permanent…as in, she would have it forever. That would suck.

So we asked all of you to pray that the pressure would go down so she wouldn’t need the shunt.

Of the last three scans, the pressure has seemed to decrease to acceptable levels and with this last scan, the ventricles looked their best. So no shunt! Yeah! For those of you who prayed…thank you so much. For those of you who didn’t…well, you can pray for the next issue and redeem yourself.

Double Vision

Please keep DOP and her double vision in your prayers. She doesn’t seem to be bothered by it. But it bothers us! We were hoping that this problem would go away sooner, but it has stayed fast and we’re not sure it is getting any better. She watches the TV with both eyes open and she doesn’t want to wear a patch on one eye. Both the in-house doctors and the neurosurgeons test her eyes daily and know it’s an issue, but they don’t seem overly concerned. Is this because double-vision is an acceptable collateral damage as compared to….death from a tumor? Or are they not concerned because it will go away? Or are they not concerned because it can be fixed later with corrective lenses? We’re just not sure…

So please pray that DOP regains the perfect vision she had before this whole ordeal started. Our God is bigger than a tumor and bigger than double vision.

Lastly, our friends whose daughter had a heart attack two days after we came into the hospital is now sharing a room with us in the Rehab Center. They refer to her as Cloe The Brave (CTB) because she has always been so brave in this and previous heart surgeries. We’re privileged to allow the girls to see each other and do rehab together! Many of you know both families and have been “praying for the girls” together and we both appreciate that so much!

Thanks for praying and caring so much.

Nathan and Brandy

Update on January 24, 2014

Well, Daughter of Purpose has been moved to a regular recovery room…no longer in PICU. This room is quieter and we have our own bathroom. The nurses don’t check in as often so the pace is a bit slower, which is nice.

Two days ago, DOP started physical therapy, occupational therapy and speech therapy. The therapists come to her room, so that is nice. Here is an update on where she is….

Speech

After only two days of ST, the therapist decided she didn’t need any more. This sounds a bit odd based on our last prayer request of her not speaking much, but it actually makes sense. The problem is not in DOP forming or saying her words. She can speak and pronounce most words correctly. The problem is that she just….doesn’t.

For those who know DOP….this….is….odd.

This girl used to talk so much we would have to discipline her at the dinner table. After a half hour of eating she would still have a full plate of food because she talked the whole time. So, you can see why this concerns us just a little.

According to both Neurologists who have been working with us, this is very common among brain surgery patients. They just don’t talk. And this can last up to a couple weeks. In the meantime, she has been prescribed a low dose of medicine that has shown to help expedite this issue in past studies.

We’ll keep you updated on this.

Physical and Occupational Therapy

This is where she will have some work ahead of her. During the surgery, they went into the head through the back of the upper neck. They pretty much just cut right through all the big neck muscles that hold up and turn your head. DOP still has a lot of pain when her head turns, but it seems to decrease every day. She can very slowly turn her head side to side, but she cringes in the process.

The PT and OT specialists work together at the same time which is nice because the games she plays with the OT to help with fine motor skills helps distract her from the more painful movements in her neck. With help, DOP can sit up on the side of the bed, but she gets tired very quickly. We still have to carry her to the bathroom, but she is at a point where she can at least sit on the toilet for a few minutes by herself. She shows improvements daily, but I’m not convinced walking will come anytime soon. I, however, have been getting quite buff from picking her up several times a day. And I need to go to the chiropractor.

Her fine motor skills with her arms, hands and fingers need a lot of work but she was able to eat a piece of pizza today by herself.

I suppose there is more in her movement than I give credit for. Tonight she was trying to pick her nose because the dry hospital air was bothering her. As a result, she got a bloody nose and it got all over! She’s such a trooper…she just laughed as the nurse and I cleaned her up.

Please continue to pray that her strength returns and her motor skills improve. Pray that her neck pain reduces and her neck muscles get stronger.

Eyes

Many friends have been asking about DOP’s eyes. She is still seeing double, but the shaky movements you see when you look at her seem to be much less than a week ago. She’s frustrated at this….since it is what brought her in here in the first place.

Please continue to pray that her eyes will get stronger and she will eventually only see one good image.

Rehab

The hospital has a very good onsite rehabilitation center. There is limited availability and certain qualifications must be met prior to being admitted. DOP had a consult with the doctor who runs it. Turns out, we knew her! (More on that in a bit.)

We found out that she meets all of the qualifications and that insurance has approved it. Originally, we were told this part of the hospital does not do admissions on the weekends, but that seems to be changing since the nurse told me we might move in on Sunday. Then it changed to Saturday.

Scheduling with this place is crazy….nothing, nothing matches anyone’s schedule. But DOP is getting great care so we don’t mind just going with the flow.

Everybody we talk to in the hospital says that the Rehab is the…place…to…be! So here’s to hoping our hopes are not let down! Apparently the rooms are much nicer, DOP can wear whatever clothes she wants from home and there is a kitchen we can use. She’ll do therapy several hours a day…so here’s to hoping I can get more school and work done too!

This image was taken several days ago, but she looks great in her homemade gown from “Auntie Mo!”

Adaptive Sports

So….a bit of history for those who do not know DOP real well.

DOP had Polio as a baby when in Russia. As a result, her legs are weak. She can walk, but she requires braces and she has a funny little limp to her gate. She’ll never be an Olympic runner and has difficulty with many sports.

Stairs are her worst enemy.

But she can get around just fine. She can swim, get in our very large car by herself, play baseball and various other things. She is just unstable sometimes and a random fall is just part of our normal entrance into every store.

Enter Children’s Hospital’s new Adaptive Sports program which is designed for those who have physical disabilities and their families. We have participated in this a few times in the past. DOP has played sledge hockey on ice. It’s the coolest thing to see a bunch of kids who can’t walk (or have difficulty walking) play ice hockey on these little sleds. They also do water sports, rock climbing and snow skiing. We were planning on going rock climbing with the group two weeks ago….but somebody had to go and get a brain tumor!

Loving the Ice Sledge Hockey!

Some of the people we have met during these outings, happen to be people who work in this hospital and have now worked with DOP. The doctor who runs the Rehab center is the one who helps put on the Adaptive Sports Clinics. She knew who we were before she entered our room. How cool is that?

God has paved the way for many things in this journey of hers….ours….whatever. There are many areas that we see God has made provisions for our family and for DOP’s recovery. We’ve made many new friends who have showed more love and support than we knew we could absorb. Our dearest friends, Randy and Monica have come to our house almost every day to help take care of our other kids, clean the floors and heat up leftovers for lunch. They’re the absolute best and we could never have come this far without them.

So many other friends and family have brought meals every day to both the home and the hospital. The support we have been given is overwhelming. Thanks friends!

But we’re not done yet. Certainly, DOP is no longer in danger (I weep just thinking about it) of the tumor, but please continue to pray for her recovery, her mind, her drive to get well and her strength.

As always, thanks so much for the prayers and support.

Nathan and Brandy

Tuesday Update (January 21, 2014)

Ever since surgery, DOP has had this little tube sticking out of the back of her head. It’s called an Exterior Ventricular Drain, or EVD. It connects to a hanging bag that collects the fluid that builds up over time.

EVD Collection Tube

The funny thing is how this whole EVD thing works. It’s rather simple, really. It’s all based on simple physics…gravity to be specific.

So the nurse hangs with a rope this little collection tube exactly parallel to DOP’s ear canal. When leveled out, this is the Zero Point. If she lowers the collection tube below the ear canal, then gravity kicks in and the fluid drains out of her brain, thereby reducing the pressure in the brain. If the nurse raises the collection tube above the ear canal, then it increases the pressure in the brain because it takes more before it drains into the elevated tube. Raising or lowering be degrees allows the doctors to monitor the pressure and also how much fluid is being produced. This all makes sense…until you see how they level it to the Zero Point.

They use a yard stick ruler with a level bubble.

Really.

All this technology around us…..

We have the ability to reach into someone’s brain and remove a tumor. We can scan their head with touchless MRI technology and see microscopic bits of tissue. The child down the hall has had heart surgery and has a dozen tubes in her body. The nurses can recall any amount of patient data wirelessly from anywhere in the hospital with these cool little portable computers.

But when it comes to leveling a brain drain….we use a level and a rope.

Awesome.

Last night DOP went in for another MRI. This one went fairly quickly and they let me go inside with her again. For all three of her MRI’s she has gone in without sedation. She is such a trooper! I know full grown adults who can’t do that! The reason was so the neurologist can determine how much pressure is building up inside her brain from fluid and to compare this with the EVD readings.

MRI room

MRI thru glass

As of this morning, they were not happy with the results. They’re not bad, but just want the pressure to be less. So they’re waiting another day before removing the EVD from her head. Please pray that the pressure continues to level out to normal. If it doesn’t go down fast enough, they’ll resort to a permanent shunt that will have to be installed under her skin down her neck into her chest.

That would just suck.

So please continue to pray for any swelling and brain fluid drainage, etc.

Lastly, Brandy and I are increasingly concerned about her speech and fine motor skills. Everything in her personality seems to be in place, except for her lack of talking. If you know DOP at all….she’s never been lacking words! We’re not sure whether it’s hard for her to talk, or hurts, or whether there are some residual effects from the surgery. Her hand and arm movements are still very slow and don’t seem to be improving much.

Is this permanent damage? Will her normal movements and speech return after a while? Will she need therapy? These are all still unanswered questions.

Please keep praying for these issues as well.

Thanks so much for everyone’s support and prayer and help.

Nathan and Brandy

Here’s a Saturday update on DOP:

Today was a great day!

Looking good today!

Last night (at 4am) we got moved to a different room in the ICU (for reasons unrelated to us) and got a MUCH larger room just two rooms over from our friends whose daughter is here for cardiac issues. It is quieter and we (that means me at this point) have a lot more room to spread out. This is helpful for me to work on my school and to sleep better since I’m staying with DOP each night.

Here is some updates on where she is at with her recovery this far….

Movement

DOP has full movements of her face…eyes, eyebrows, lips, cheeks, smile. Everything! She can move her hands and arms and feet and legs, but is still very week. I just love her smile!

Today, she was able to sit up in her bed…kind of like being in a chair. She has been able to rotate her neck back and forth…albeit….VERY slowly. Bit still! This was a major improvement today.

The nurses removed her catheter this morning in an attempt to motivate her to move more. One time this seemed to work….another, well, not so much. We’ll see how this goes over the coming days.

Her eyes are not lining up correctly. One day they look fine, then the next the left is delayed, then the right. The surgeon thinks this will clear up over time and doesn’t seem to be too concerned. In the meantime, I’ve put a patch over one eye so that she doesn’t have to strain to see clearly.

Eating

Over the last couple days, she has taken in a bit of liquids via straw and me holding a cup. But she hasn’t had any solid food since last Sunday….the day before surgery. Yesterday, I got her to eat two small French fries and Brandy got her a Jamba Juice that she drank quite a bit from.

Today….tons! She had several bites of bacon for breakfast, several bites of cheesequesadilla for lunch and tonight she had a few bites of meat and cheese from In-N-Out Burger. Of course, we knew she would eat that! This was all on top of lots of fluids she drank all day long.

Talking

Since surgery, she has only been mumbling responses a majority of the time. However, we know she has been able to talk because when she desperately wants something, she’ll say it. And say it clearly. This morning I told her very plainly that nobody was going to respond to her mumbling or whining unless she used real words that people could hear and understand. She didn’t like that, but she attempted to comply most of the day.

Thinking

DOP is still the same girl! The day after surgery she was whimpering and trying to communicate with two nurses who were taking care of her. They were confused, so I leaned over and asked what she was saying. She kept saying her name. I asked the nurse if she said her name the way it is written phonetically and she said yes. We pronounce her name slightly different that it is spelled and she loves to correct people that “say it wrong.” So, there she was….DOP telling off these nurses on how to pronounce her name!

Yep….that’s my daughter!

Last night she watched a full length movie and seemed to be able to focus on it much of the time. I was impressed since prior to that she seemed to have the attention span of a knat. After the movie she wasn’t tired yet, so I wondered if she could concentrate on a game. So we played a game of Crazy 8’s. She honestly won! She wasn’t able to hold the cards up well, but she knew exactly what she was doing and beat me. But that wore her out!

Today she played with a couple games with me and Brandy, watched a movie, played with some stuff animals and various other things. Today was the greatest day so far! Proud of her!

Prognosis

If you weren’t able to follow our FB posts, here is the current long term prognosis.

The tumor was a low Grade 1 benign tumor, slow growing, and most likely been there for a long time. Possibly several years. There is a slight bit still left behind just as the surgeon thought. As she was scraping it away, she got very close to the cerebellum and if she kept scraping, would cause significant damage that could never be repaired. As a result, there is a tiny thin slice showing up in the post-surgery MRI. But due to the type and slow growth of the tumor, the immediate decision is to just leave it alone and see what happens.

No Chemo! No Radiation! No additional surgery!

As the surgeon puts it, there is nothing wrong with leaving it there as long as it doesn’t grow. So we just monitor with an MRI every three months and see what happens.

It could go away on its own.

It could sit there and do nothing.

Or…it could grow in the future.

But until it does something…we do not do anything. And if it does grow, we’ll decide THEN how best to tackle it based on its rate of growth and the circumstances at that time.

We were just happy with no Chemo.

Prayer

Please keep praying for DOP. She still has a long way to go. Pray for her strength and fine motor skills.

Pray for continued healing of her head, neck and brain.

Pray for continued eating and her eyes to get better. We can tell that she is bothered by her eyes not working well. Remember, she came in here because of seeing double. So we kinda think she’s angry that it hasn’t cleared up after the surgery…..eh. Not sure what to say about this to her…..

Thank you, thank you, thank you to everyone who has prayed for DOP and brought us meals and supplies. You all mean the world to us and to our Daughter of Purpose.