The Back Story, part 2

So where was I? Oh, right. DOP has a brain tumor. Awesome {insert sarcasm}.

Friday morning we met with one of the two neurosurgeons. She was great and answered all of our questions. In no particular order, here is what we learned.

They won’t know for sure what kind of tumor it is until surgery (which is right now as I type this). They don’t know how long it’s been there, although her gut feeling was that it has been there for quite some time….possibly several years. There was very little pressure being put on the brain which is why she only had very minimal symptoms. Also, because of the low pressure on the surrounding brain tissue, this might indicate that the tumor has grown along with the brain as she has grown. In essence, the brain has adapted to the tumor as it has grown in size, thus minimizing the pressure until only recently. But again, this is only educated speculation.

We will not know about future chemo or radiation until after the surgery. The surgeons will need to see how difficult it is to get out, whether there are any fragments left after surgery, and so on.

We won’t know till after surgery if it is malignant or benign, what type of cancer it is, etc. Again, just more waiting for these answers.

As far as brain surgery goes, this is “a routine procedure.” Really? Routine? Whatever.

We need to plan on two to four weeks post-operation for her to be here…possible much more time if there are other complications.

There are obvious complications that we can expect to see. Loss of motor skills in the face, arms, hands, etc. Slurred speech and droopy eyes. Death. Other things that I stopped paying attention to.

Sigh.

It is here that I must remember that DOP loves Jesus. She loves our God and believes in Him with all her heart, mind and soul.

Friday and Saturday we didn’t do much. DOP got to walk around the PICU and say hello to all the doctors and nurses. They started her on an IV drug that is supposed to help reduce some of the swelling and remove water from the areas around the brain. This should help during the operation. In the meantime, DOP wore an eye patch just to help with the double vision.

The meds worked. By Sunday, she wasn’t seeing double when she looked straight ahead. Yeah!

Over the course of the last few days, the surgeons and doctors kept checking in to see if we had any questions and to see how DOP was doing. I kept saying, “She’s fine, let’s go home!”

They never believed me.

Last night, DOP wanted to go on a walk again before she went to bed. So she filled up the squirt gun that one of the doctors gave her earlier and she walked through the halls squirting all the nurses and doctors. She loved it! She had such a great big smile and laughed the whole time. I loved it too.

I have a brain tumor. Can't you tell?

I have a brain tumor. Can’t you tell?

“Hi, my name is Nathan. Nice to meet you. I’m the father of the cute little girl with the brain tumor that’s walking around shooting everyone with a squirt gun at eleven o’clock at night. Yeah, she has a brain tumor. Can’t you tell?”

One of the nurses decided to fight back, grabbed her own super soaker and ran after DOP! It was a great time for her before the big day.

Squirt gun revenge!

Squirt gun revenge!

So here we are….

My daughter has a brain tumor, is in surgery right now.

And all I can think about is that great big smile.

 

The Back Story, part 1

Many have asked how DOP got to this point of having a brain tumor. How long has she had it? How did we discover it? And what do the doctors say?

Well, I can’t sleep the night before she goes in to have it removed….so here you go.

Four to six weeks ago, DOP started getting headaches in the back of her head. They weren’t too severe. They came and went. Simple aspirin helped. It never seemed like a big deal. It did go on for a couple of weeks, but again, it was off and on. We really didn’t think much of it.

Then they went away.

On January 1st of this year, she complained of seeing double. This was a little disconcerting because she just had an eye exam in October and everyone was fine….20/20. She’s never had a problem with her eyes before. The next day, it was still there and she was watching TV with only one eye. As a parent of a nine-year old that loves attention, you’re never really sure when to believe that something is wrong unless there is obvious blood, puke or a child is simply missing. The one-eye-in-front-of-the-tv bit moved to one-eye-all-the-time. Brandy become more concerned and, admittedly, I figured she was seeking some attention.

Then the ear started rumbling.

On Saturday the 4th, DOP complained that her right ear rumbled like a volcano. She did have a mild cold and she said that the rumbling got louder when she blew her nose. I figured it was a sinus issue, but I too, thought something wasn’t right at this point. Brandy scheduled an appointment with DOP’s pediatrician for Monday afternoon. The doctor ran the normal tests right there in the room, and she passed everything. Yet, her complaints (and our observations) didn’t line up with his assessments. So just to be safe, he ordered an MRI for her. He figured the hospital would call within a week and we would get an appointment within a week or two of that day.

Less than two days later (Wednesday) we got a phone call with an opening for Thursday. We’re not sure if this was simply providence or if the doctor actual called and had it expedited. Regardless, we’re thankful for the quick turnaround!

Thursday came and I promised DOP that if she laid in the MRI tube real still for the whole 30-45 minutes, that I would buy her a donut. She was up to the task! The staff in the radiology department let me go inside with her and sit and watch right outside the tube. It was very cool and we both appreciated their willingness to let me sit with her. After about a half hour, the technician came inside the room and said the doctor asked for additional scans of her spine.

This is when I first knew something was not right. Um, why would you be on the phone with the doctor already? And, why do you need to scan her neck and spine also? I didn’t verbalize these questions, but I knew something was up.

The next set was going to take as long as the first, so they let DOP get off the table and use the restroom and get some water. As she was headed back into the room, the radiologist pulled me aside and said he needed to show me some pictures. Here it comes, I thought.

As DOP laid back on the table and began the second set of scans, I sat in the control room and was shown picture after picture of the 2” by 3” mass that lay in the back of her beautiful little head.

Brain tumor. The light grey oval mass right in the middle of her head.

Brain tumor. The light grey oval mass right in the middle of her head.

Brain tumor.

Seriously? What the heck? How does that happen?

A brain tumor? In DOP? We came in for double vision. How did we jump to brain tumor?

Big sigh, Nathan. Big, big sigh.

After a moment, I called Brandy and broke the news. “You need to come down here. Now. Our daughter has a brain tumor. She’s not leaving the hospital.”

Brandy made arrangements for our other kids and headed over. After walking up to ICU from Radiology (all the nurses were ready to receive this new patient with a brain tumor and were surprised she just walked right in!), I sat DOP down on her bed and explained the situation. She just smiled and said she would be okay.

Well, SHE might be okay….but me? I’m about to lose it completely!

While Brandy was on her way to the hospital, she received a call from the original pediatrician that ordered the MRI. He was already aware of everything and as he talked to her, he began to cry. It was a very welcome gesture for him to call and see if we were okay.

While waiting for the ICU doctors to come and explain what was going on, DOP just wanted her donut. Typical.

I stayed the night with DOP while Brandy took care of the home front. It was a little surreal at first. I mean…she looked fine! Aside from her seeing double (which didn’t seem so problematic anymore), she looked great! She walked into ICU on her own and smiled at people as she went.

She has a brain tumor?

Light grey circle in the middle of her brain. About 2" wide.

Light grey circle in the middle of her brain. About 2″ wide.

Yep. My daughter has a brain tumor the size and shape of a kiwi fruit.

It was one of the longest nights of my life.

Part two in a bit….

 

Thank you!

“Your daughter has a brain tumor.”

Words a parent never expects to hear.

But those were the words I heard just a few days ago. Brandy and I have been trying to post as much as we can on online to all our friends and family with updates and the status of our daughter. We call her DOP online because she was adopted from Russia and is our Daughter of Purpose. (If you want to read her story, go here for her full adoption story)

And we believe that she is FULL of Purpose.

Thanks to everyone who has been praying and for all the well wishes, texts, phone calls and instant messages. We’re sorry we cannot respond to everyone, though we truly want to.

I am staying with DOP most of the time because I have a freer schedule than Brandy. Yesterday while driving between the hospital and home, I was thinking about all the comments we’ve received online about people praying. I was overcome with gratitude and even now as I write, I am overwhelmed with the love and support that DOP and our family has received. People are truly praying for her and for us. This is what the body of Christ is supposed to do. Pray for and support each other in times of need.

I cannot begin to count the number of people praying for this surgery. There are hundreds and hundreds. People all over the city. People from several churches we have relationships with.

People on the East Coast. Friends in Germany and Sweden. Relatives of good friends who are in central Africa. People in Russia and Ukraine. Relatives in Arizona and Nebraska. Colorado. People in Florida I’ve never met, but chat with on social media all the time.

And so many others!

This was all a reminder that DOP is well loved. My family is loved. Thank you all so much! We cannot repay you all back, but hope to try in the future.

Your prayers have a purpose….much like our daughter!

Nathan and Brandy and family.

Tipping the Balance Toward Leadership (short/original version)

I’ve gone back to school to work on a degree in Organizational Leadership. This is partly why I don’t blog much….too busy writing for them, rather than for me. The following is something I wrote for a class project a while back. It’s in a more formal writing style than I prefer to use because of the academic nature of the classes, but I thought this piece was better than some of my others so I figured I’d post it here.

Enjoy!

Tipping the Balance Toward Leadership

As a devout Christian, I find the topics of church, theology, preaching and all things associated with modern day evangelicalism to nearly always be at the forefront of my mind. As one who is also employed by a church, I am compelled to consider the church’s purpose, its value and place in American society, its methodologies, and even how its led and operated. On a daily basis I am reminded of the balance between what is proclaimed from the platform on Sunday morning from the Lead Pastor with what I know to be true the rest of the week. Assuming the weekly message of God is coming from a seminary educated, fully trained pastor, qualified in his interpretation of the original Greek or Hebrew and it’s modern day application, is this the most important aspect of the Lead Pastor’s responsibilities? Are the duties and the leadership of the pastor Monday through Saturday (responsibilities within the confines of his job as pastor) equally as important as his ability to preach and teach the Word of God on just one day a week? I believe that leadership is the most important aspect in guiding and growing a healthy and fruitful church, even exceeding the role of being a good Sunday teacher. Without strong leadership, chances are that the church will not grow in any significant way spiritually or numerically. A lead pastor with strong and clear leadership abilities but with minimal teaching ability will typically have considerably more impact on the church than one with strong teaching abilities and minimal leadership skills.

Every denomination has different vocabulary and terminology, so with hundreds of denominations within the Protestant Christian Church and variants of each of those, we will first briefly cover some commonly used expressions so that nobody is confused with the various groups or people that are described throughout this paper. Names, titles and positions that essentially provide the same function across denominations are often called something different and confused with the same name but differing function in another denomination. For clarities sake, this paper refers to the Lead Pastor, otherwise known as the Senior Pastor, Senior Minister, Reverend, Preacher, or whatever person is at the top of the hierarchy and considered to be the highest ranking official within the church. This person can be male or female and we will refer to this person as a male for simplicities sake, but this gender description does not formalize a position of whether the Lead Pastor should or could be a woman. As is usually the case, the Lead Pastor is also the primary communicator of the organization, consistently speaking on Sunday mornings (or whenever the church regularly meets). As the person most responsible for proclaiming the Word of God, the title of Preacher, Teacher, Pastor, Evangelist and Reverend is frequently given. Again, for the sake of simplicity, we will refer to this duty as teaching so as not to give preference to any particular group (Priest is also sometimes given to the primary communicator, although this typically infers a Catholic ordination rather than Protestant). In most American churches, there is an underlying group of people who are not normally as visible to the church as the Lead Pastor, but do have significant control over the function, direction, vision and authority of the church and is frequently the Lead Pastor’s boss. This group is often made up of volunteers called an Elder Board, Deacons, Session, or Assembly, and we will refer them simply as the Board. Finally, the people who frequent the church itself may normally be referred to as The Church, Church Member, Attender, Regulars, Congregants, Volunteers, Patrons, or Associates. These people, who make up the overall body (another frequently used term) of those who attend the church on a regular basis, shall be called members or the church (implying one local church combined of all its parts corporately).

1. Importance of Leadership

Certainly everyone would agree leadership is important, not just in the church, but in every organization. But why is leadership more important than teaching about the Bible or Jesus or why communion is important? In my experience of working at many levels of church leadership, there seems to be an underlying confusion between Biblical authority and corporate leadership. Most notably, “…a leader considered an expert in one area is often treated as an expert in others as well” (Stanley 25). When the Lead Pastor stands up Sunday morning and gives a powerful, encouraging, passionate sermon, the members are not thinking about what happens in the church during the week. Most church members assume that this man leads the staff (and/or volunteer leaders) with an equal amount of power and passion and capability. As a result, ministries and projects are given to the pastor to lead and expect an identical outcome. However, as Stanley clearly points out, this is faulty thinking. “If you fail to distinguish between authority and competence, you will exert your influence in ways that damage projects and people” (Stanley 24). Simply put, just because the pastor is good at teaching doesn’t mean he is good at leading. In fact, one could be a fantastic, world renown teacher and still be a horribly unqualified leader incapable of administrating directions to his secretary.

Many would argue that the lead pastor’s primary focus and function is to teach on Sunday or during weekend services. This teaching is the primary catalyst of personal and corporate spiritual growth. A good sermon is considered to be the pinnacle of a pastor’s ability to “pastor a church.” Teaching is the reason why a pastor attends seminary, learns to parse Greek and Hebrew and to give historical and contextual backgrounds for Biblical accounts. Sunday morning is often the basis for which he was hired in the first place, is where he is most noticed, and often times is the method in which many people are “saved” or dedicate their lives toward Christ and become Christians. The pastor’s ability to teach is a driving force behind whether a new visitor decides whether to come back the following week. Being an excellent Sunday morning teacher has been one of the most foundational distinctions of how to judge the effectiveness of a pastor for generations. But this pairing of teaching ability and leading ability is highly faulty.

In explaining the allocation of spiritual gifts among Believers, the Apostle Paul explains, “There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them” (1 Corinthians 12:4 ) and “…if it is to lead, do it diligently” (Romans 12: 8c). Throughout 1 Corinthians 12 and Romans 12 the Bible quite clearly delineates between spiritual gifts given to the Believers. It’s assumed by most that every Christian has at least one, perhaps a few, but never exhibits all. Yet, in the Christian church we uphold this belief that because the pastor attended seminary, he must therefore be a good leader, shepherd, counselor and teacher. The problem here is that most seminaries do not teach much about leadership. “Most pastors have little training or background in leadership. But they are expected to lead a church. Some may have extensive theological and biblical training, but they are weak in leadership. Jethro had to tell Moses that his leadership approach was all wrong. Moses was headed for a leadership disaster. Many of our churches have leaders who have few leadership skills” (Rainer). Leadership is important. Teaching is also important. But being good at one, does not mean being good at both. In writing about leadership within the church, Mike Bonem and Roger Patterson state, “In fact, a staff member who cannot lead through influence should not be given additional authority” (Bonem and Patterson 83).

2. Perception of “Need”

One of the biggest misconceptions within the church is understanding what the members really need verses what they really want. The church is like a child throwing a tantrum asking for candy late in the afternoon, when what she really needs is dinner. There’s a disconnect between her eyes and her stomach. The church is much the same way.

The Willow Creek Association has conducted four large scale studies on the topic of discipleship and spiritual growth, collectively called The REVEAL Studies. From the third study, in a book called FOCUS: The Top Ten Things People Want and Need from You and Your Church, Greg Hawkins and Cally Parkinson share the staggering statistics from the responses of “80,000 people from 376 churches who took the REVEAL Spiritual Life Survey…” (Hawkins and Parkinson, FOCUS 11) detailing what helped individuals and churches collectively grow more mature in their spiritual life. Expecting to show that the Lead Pastor’s most influential role would be through teaching (as do most Christians and church members), their statistics showed otherwise:

We discovered that the role of leading the church had four times the impact on satisfaction with the church’s role in spiritual growth compared to the role of teaching. Specifically, the role of teaching accounted for 20 percent of the senior pastor’s influence on satisfaction with the church’s role in spiritual growth, and the role of leading accounted for 80 percent. (Hawkins and Parkinson, FOCUS 81)

In addition, the study discovered that “Spiritual challenge is the Lead Pastor’s most significant driver of spiritual growth” (Hawkins and Parkinson, FOCUS 68). In other words, most members confuse what they believe and want in a pastor in order to grow spiritually (a teacher who tells them about God, the Bible and spiritual things) with what they actually need from a pastor to grow spiritually (challenged to grow themselves, led out of their personal comfort zone, and living a life of change). This idea was confirmed one year later in REVEAL’s fourth survey comprising over 1,000 churches and 250,000 congregants:

Everything in REVEAL [studies] tells us that people want to be challenged. Instead of handing them the proverbial fish, they want us to provide them with a fishing line so they can find out what it’s like to catch one on their own. If we do that-if we help people experience life as a Christ follower, whether through short-term behavior challenges or substantive ministry assignments-we’ll catch a lot more fish for Jesus than if we keep doing so much ourselves. (Hawkins and Parkinson, MOVE 233)

We see this example in Acts 6:1-7 when many of the Jewish widows were being overlooked during food distribution. When the disciples in charge were approached, the request from the people was for food. What the disciples provided was leadership. It’s interesting to note here that the disciples response was not to provide an immediate relief of food, but to provide a structure that ultimately led to the end result of food. What the people wanted was different from what was needed. Our churches may want good teaching. What our churches need is good leadership.

3. The Corporate Comparison

When discussing the idea of strong leadership from the Lead Pastor, I frequently note in other people’s response a slight cringe in the idea due to its comparison with a for-profit corporate structure. With the Lead Pastor focusing on leading, structure, decision-making, goals and team building, it sounds a lot like a CEO of some major corporation. Yes, it does, and yes, it should. Here’s why.

Jesus commanded Christians to live in the world but not be consumed by or adhere to its values and philosophies. So when comparing the “top-down” style of corporate leadership to the traditional flat-lined structure of church boards, we tend to withdraw at this supposed “commercialization of the church.” It seems too close to targeting the “bottom line” and corporate greed and structure and big business. But if there is something to be learned from business, it’s that top-down leadership produces better results in reaching organizational goals. Leadership involves vision-casting, decision-making, organization, and focus on what the “end game” is, leaving out everything that is unnecessary. Churches should be no different. Each church needs vision to stay on target, decisions so that directional movement can be achieved, organization so that all those involved understand their priorities, and that the true purpose in the church is to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ and make disciples. Good leadership should happen in an ongoing daily cycle. Without this leadership, a good teacher is only a good teacher and will never achieve the organization’s purpose.

With this idea of corporate structure, we need to make sure we do not confuse theology with methodology. The reaction to strong leadership and its importance to the church is often contested with an argument of some sort of theological dispute suggesting God would not agree. Many Christians get hung up and confuse methodology (leadership structure and focus) with theology (core religious belief systems derived from Biblical text) and believe one may interfere with the other. With this confusion comes the view that certainly God would disapprove of this structure and focus! However, I find nowhere in the Bible to support a theological view that a focus on leadership is less important to God than a focus on teaching. Rethinking how we do church, how we do leadership, how we reach out to the community, how we worship, even how we teach the Gospel, does not have to change what we consider church to be, or what we believe about the Bible, or why we are reaching out to the community or who we are worshipping. As the world changes, as generations come and go, we must always consider what is the best method to reach people for God, what is the best method to structure our organizations and even what is the best method to teach the Bible. It is what we believe in God, the truth of the Bible and our theology that must never change. But we must never confuse the two ideological standpoints.

With a corporate mentality often comes teams, goals and accountability. Pastors must be able to build teams, develop other leaders and even set performance goals. One of the key components to leadership is the ability to develop and work with teams. “When a true team emerges, performance improves not because team members like each other better but because collectively they can make better decisions on the important issues facing the organization” (Bonem and Patterson 91). Put another way, “Leadership is not always about getting things done ‘right.’ Leadership is about getting things done through other people. Leaders miss opportunities to play to their strengths because they haven’t figured out that great leaders work through other leaders, who work through others. Leadership is about multiplying your efforts, which automatically multiples your results” (Stanley 27).

In her book, Multipliers: how the best leaders make everyone smarter, Liz Wiseman discusses the impact that Multipliers, those who multiply the impact of others through their leadership, have on those who work with them. She explains that it is not just teams that are important, but teams with purpose and with accountability.

Multipliers don’t act as Investors [in other people] because it makes people feel good. They invest because they value the return on their investment. They believe that people perform at their best when they have a natural accountability. So they define ownership, invest resources, and hold people accountable. (Wiseman 185)

4. Ecclesiastes 3

“There is a  time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-2). The historicity of the American church is strong, unique and filled with the problematic philosophy that what used to work should work now and will always work in the future. But the world today is vastly different from previous generations and just because one methodology used to work well doesn’t mean it always will. People stopped gathering at the town square to hear the news of last week because the newspaper was invented and they could read about what happened yesterday. Just the same, newspaper sales are declining because we can now see the news online about what happened across the world less than five minutes ago. The old methods, what was then efficient and wonderful, is no longer good enough and antiquated. This adds to the previous point of methodology: the news we share does not change, but we must change methods in how we share it.

Two generations ago we saw the focus in the American church was on the teacher and his abilities in expository preaching. When the average church size lingered in the low 100’s and only the pastor was on the payroll, there wasn’t much need for leadership. He was able to know and greet each family as they needed, visit the sick, marry the young and bury the dead.  As the American church has changed, introducing mega-churches of several thousand members and multi-site churches having dozens and even hundreds of staff, the focus must change to leadership in order to meet the needs of those depending on the organization’s ability to reach its goals. The pastor must lead and minister the staff. The staff must minister and lead the church.

“Our fiercest battles are seldom fought over theology. They’re fought over change, especially any change that comes as a surprise, alters a comfortable tradition, or represents a symbolic changing of the guard” (Osborne 172). People are often afraid of change, but we must embrace the idea that change can be good and that God knows and understands that there is a season for everything. Change is necessary, it happens, and we must learn to embrace it with all diligence.

5. The Pastor’s Role

“‘Established churches in decline are suffering from a leadership crisis,’ says Kirbyjon Caldwell, senior pastor of Windsor Village United Methodist Church in Houston” (Barnes and Lowry 4). Speaking more specifically about his own churches change in leadership focus, he goes on, “Reversing the decline…was about the leaders of the church-both clergy and laity- deciding to redefine the congregation and meet the needs of the community” (Barnes and Lowry 4). During his time as senior pastor, his church went from 25 members to 7,100 in 25 years. In recognizing the previous pastor’s focus on teaching, Caldwell focused on leadership. But he first had to deal with a church that was in denial about what they needed.

“Another thing is equally certain. The role a pastor takes will determine to a great extent the church’s potential for numerical growth. Pastors who don’t lead, can’t lead, or aren’t allowed to lead seldom see their church break through growth barriers. It’s as rare as a balmy day in the middle of a Chicago winter. It can happen, but it’s bizarre when it does” (Osborne 87). In a recent conversation I had with a former coworker of mine, Stephanie German, Director of Outreach at River Valley Community Church in Fresno, CA, this idea resonated with me. “I’m not the Lead Pastor at this church. But even I recognize that leadership is of utmost importance at every level. We have many teachers, many people with different gifts. But if we have no leadership to organize them and to keep momentum building toward our goal of reaching the lost, we all have nothing. All we have is many teachers and people with different gifts. Leadership from our Senior Pastor and myself, is what drives this church to success. Success for us, is growth spiritually and numerically.”

Teaching in the church is important. As is shepherding, counseling and leading. But it is through leadership that these other gifts will be more effective. Leadership draws out the potential in other people, not just using the potential that you have. As Wiseman aptly states, “It isn’t how much you know that matters. What matters is how much access you have to what other people know. It isn’t just how intelligent your team members are; it is how much of that intelligence you can draw out and put to use” (Wiseman 10). Applied to the church, it isn’t how well you teach, how much information you can regurgitate to the church members or even how well they remember all the data you speak to them. What matters is action. What matters is moving that entire group of people, whether 25 or 7,000, toward a goal, toward action themselves. If we believe that God has indeed granted wonderful spiritual gifts to each and every Believer, leading those Believers toward using their gifts is what will grow the church the most because our actions are multiplied rather than added. Leadership can create ownership amongst the masses that are led well. And “Ownership marks the shift from passive attendance at a weekend service to active engagement in the life and mission of the church” (Hawkins and Parkinson, FOCUS 32).

Lead Pastors, and other church members for that matter, must recognize this fact that leadership is more important and more productive than good teaching. Leadership will drive better results of church members growing in their personal faith and encourage numerical growth as well. In the FOCUS study, it was shown that “The senior pastor’s leadership of the church-which means making and executing the kinds of decisions that create an environment of spiritual challenge and spiritual guidance in all ministries-drives satisfaction with the church’s role in spiritual growth by a margin of four to one” (Hawkins and Parkinson, FOCUS 82). The implication of this? The authors of this nation-wide study continued on, “This finding implies that even the best sermon doesn’t have nearly the impact as do the day-to-day decisions a senior pastor makes about how to lead a church-specifically the decisions that deliver spiritual guidance through the church” (Hawkins and Parkinson, FOCUS 82).

The church must have good teaching, this no one denies. But for the church to truly succeed, to truly reach more people for the Gospel of Christ, to truly grow healthy spiritually, corporately and numerically, the church must have not just good leadership and good teaching. It must have great leadership.

Works Cited

Barnes, Rebecca and Lowry, Lindy. 7 Church Leaders Website. Startling Facts: An Up Close Look at Church Attendance in America. 2012. Web.

Bonem, Mike and Patterson, Roger. Leading from the Second Chair. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-  Bass, 2005. Print.

German, Stephanie. Personal interview. 4 February 2012.

Gopez-Sindac, Rez. “The CE Interview with Sam S. Rainer III.” Church Executive January 2013:            10-12. Print.

Groeschel, Craig. Confessions of a Pastor. Colorado Springs, CO: Multnomah, 2006. Print.

Hawkins, Greg and Parkinson, Cally. FOCUS: The Top Ten Things People Want and Need from You and Your Church. Barrington, IL: Willow Creek Resources, 2009. Print.

Hawkins, Greg and Parkinson, Cally. MOVE: What 1,000 Churches Reveal About Spiritual           Growth. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 2011. Print.

Mancini, Will. Will Mancini: Clarity Changes Everything. Houston, TX. 2013. Web.

Montgomery, Cynthia. “Putting Leadership Back Into Strategy.” Harvard Business Review January 2008. Pages not available.

Osborne, Larry. Sticky Teams. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 2010. Print.

Rainer, Thom. Four Simple Reasons Most Church Aren’t Breakout Churches. 2013. Web.

Stanley, Andy. NEXT GENERATION LEADER: Five Essentials For Those Who Will Shape         The Future. New York: Multnomah, 2003. Print.

Surratt, Geoff. Geoff Surratt, Inner Revolution. Denver, CO: April 2013. Web.

Wiseman, Liz. Multipliers: how the best leaders make everyone smarter. New York:           HarperCollins, 2010. Print

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Disappear

What if your 15 year old daughter just….disappeared?

Think about that. Really, what would you do?

What if you came home from work one night and your daughter wasn’t home like she should be. You might wait a little while, thinking she may have just left school late or stopped at a friends house. You might call some family members or neighbors. Maybe her school or friends. Maybe you would drive around the neighborhood or go to the school.

As panic sets in, eventually you would call the police. But they don’t know anything and can’t find her….or maybe they really don’t care…

You would call the media…all of them.
“Tell the world she’s missing! This is my daughter!”
You would print pictures of her and put them up all over the city.
She’s important!
You would call the media again…even the national news outlets.
She’s valuable!
This is your daughter. You raised her. You love her. Her brother cries every night wondering where she went.
You would drive around the city every night until 4am, looking for a sign she might be alive.
She means something to you and your family!
Walking the cold streets along the seedy parts you’ve never seen at night, you would risk walking up to strangers, asking them, “Have you seen this girl? She’s my daughter and she went missing two weeks ago.”

What if your 15 year old daughter just…disappeared?

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Well, it happens every day to certain teens….but few notice.

Over the last few days, our team has visited several orphanages and tech schools throughout the Kirov region in Russia. Children’s Hopechest has a fantastic team here that ministers to the orphans, provides counseling, helps with education funds and creates church partnerships that allow church groups to come alongside the kids and minister to them….usually with week-long trips to the orphanage and tech schools.

Orphans have proven to be the most vulnerable when it comes to sex trafficking. With no family, little education, poor social skills, and nobody to depend on…they are the perfect target. In many parts of the country, Russian orphans “graduate” from the orphanage between 14 and 16 years of age. With no where to go, traffickers pray on their vulnerability, offering lucrative jobs…usually out of the region or country, and often overseas.

When the victim goes missing, few people notice…because they have no family.

They often just…disappear.

Nobody knows they’re missing. Maybe a few friends might notice…but chances are, they’re orphans too. Nobody comes looking for those who disappear.

They’re just….gone.

This is the reason Hopechest works with orphans…to help them.
Teach them.
Warn them.
Love them.
To give them tools to understand and protect themselves.
To show them they are valuable and important to God.
Care for them.
To give them hope.
To teach them about Jesus.

This…is what James 1:27 means.
This…is what James 2:14-17 means.

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And this is why we’re here.